Here are my opinions and observations:
1. I hate being lied to. I know many military in all branches and know that they joined for financial reasons. Now in uniform they claim to have joined to protect our country. Tell me the truth.
2. I dislike all these monuments being erected for the military. I would rather that money be spent on better medical services for our soldiers. Anytime I get to vote for better services for our military personnel, I vote yes. When asked to vote for monuments, I vote no.
3. I dislike military people expecting respect because they served in the military. To me, respect is earned not given because of a uniform. Same goes for police. Simply accepting a job does not earn respect.
4. Lets be honest: Military is not always voluntary. To me, a volunteer does the job without compensation or need for acknowledgement. Our military gets a salary for the jobs they are expected to do (they don't get paid enough in my opinion).
5. I have encountered some military (mostly army), when confronted, always want to take the challenge outside along with his buddies. I would be a fool to accept a challenge with a guy with his friends outside. Granted, some have been drinking, but some others were sober. This may be due to their training. My personal belief is that a man needs to fight a fair fight (one to one, and no hitting below the belt)
6. I do respect the military for the job they are expected to do. I believe that they should not be stifled by the rules of war that our enemies do not follow.
7. I do see the benefit of military, and their training. I have witnessed the military turn many youths into better, respectable adults. These are kids that did not really have the proper guidance in their young lives.
8. When I give, I give freely and do not expect or want thanks. I treat people the way I want to be treated. As long as the military is with the people, my silent vote will always be to benefit the military.